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How do you know if someone has hearing loss?
Hearing loss shows itself in the way that the hearing-impaired person acts in various social situations and the way he/she interacts with others. Usually it is a spouse, relative, friend or business associate who notices the problem first. Initially, those who interact with the hearing-impaired person often remark, “he doesn’t pay attention”, or “he ignores me.” As time progresses, it is not uncommon for interpersonal relationships to become strained and for family members and friends to become frustrated, and even angry with the hearing-impaired individual.
The hearing-impaired person, being the focus of this frustration and anger, is in the process of undergoing emotional changes, which usually occur in stages. Being aware of these emotional stages, and the behaviours associated with them, will help you to better grasp how the hearing-impaired person is dealing with their hearing loss and at what stage they are at with regards to seeking help. This is important if you are to assist them successfully in making the transition toward gaining professional assistance.